The Top Secret To Attracting Women - What Rich Men Know That You Don't
If you know nothing regarding women or how to pick up and seduce women, you only have to know one thing. You only have to know THE one biggest secret to attracting women that all successful men naturally have and losers don't.
- James Bond has it
- Sports and movie stars have it
- Rich men have it
- Men that know exactly how to attract women have it
- YOU can also have it
What is this magic secret that can turn you from zero to hero like a Hogwarts charm? Alcohol? Zen meditation ? Pheromones extracted from the Tasmanian wombat? It is something called CONFIDENCE.
CONFIDENCE? WHAT DO YOU MEAN?
If you observe rich or successful men, they have a specific vibe, a specific authority, a specific swagger, a certain confidence. They exude confidence in their body movement, their voice articulations, and the way they interact with women. Due to the successes and experiences that got them their high level of natural confidence, successful men have an intrinsic high sense of value and do not fear women or rejection.
THE IDEA OF PERCEIVED VALUE
Aside from puppy love and teen crushes, what attracts a woman to a man is not his looks, riches, success, charm, or his amazing conversational skills. Instinctively, what attracts a woman to a man is his value. While for men, a woman's value at first is just how hot she looks, for a woman, it's much more complicated on an instinctive level. A woman, especially an attractive woman, has an exact sense of her innate value. She knows exactly what she is worth and what level of a man she is able to attract. Naturally, the more the woman thinks about herself, the higher the level of men she is going to try to attract.
This concept of the way the woman thinks about herself is her perceived value. What she thinks about a man is her perceived value of that man. A woman will be attracted to a man ONLY if her perceived value of him is higher than her own value. There is a popular myth saying that a woman, when meeting a man, immediately judges whether she will sleep with him or not. While this is only partly correct IMO, the woman WILL decide subconsciously if your value is higher that hers or not, thus being attracted to you.
SO WHAT DOES THAT IMPLY IN THE SCHEME OF THINGS?
The idea of perceived value implies that you have to show the woman that your value is higher than hers. This is called "demonstrating your value" in pickup artist parlance. But before you have a chance to demonstrate your value, you first have to approach the woman and get in the door and actually have her receptive to what you have to say. The instant you go up to a woman, she can only judge your value by your level of confidence.
The higher your confidence, the higher your perceived value will be. With higher perceived value, you can attract the hotter women. Now the only issue is if you're not rich, successful, powerful, or James Bond, how exactly do you emanate confidence that women find so irresistible?